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Ignoring your guests may seem rude, but for your cat, it may be
standard operating procedure. Be sure to give Fluffy a place to retreat to if
your party gets too wild.
"Cats should be allowed the opportunity to hide," says Debbie
Horwitz, a veterinarian and board-certified behavior specialist. She recommends
planning ahead and equipping the "safe room" with food, water, and, most
importantly, a litter box. Eventually your cat will need to eliminate, and you
definitely want that to happen in the appropriate place!
Posting a note on the door to this room can't hurt, either.
It's a thoughtful touch - for your guests and your cat - that lets people know
there is a cat inside who doesn't want to be disturbed.
TAKE A CAT'S EYE VIEW
Above all, try to look at the
situation from your cat's point of view. "If you think your pet doesn't want to
be there, your probably right," says Dr. Horwitz. And no matter how much your
guests may love your cat, your cat doesn't have to love them back.
"There are always people who say, 'Oh animals love me, let me
pet your cat.' But if you know your cat gets stressed by unfamiliar people - or
by crowds or small children - don't give in to this," she says.
A note about allergies: Always let your guests know ahead of
time that you have a cat, as one or more invitees may be allergic. Since there's
really no way to get all the hair and dander out of your home, issuing a warning
is just good host etiquette. This goes double for overnight guests.
RAISING A PARTY ANIMAL
"If you like to give parties, and
you know you will be entertaining frequently, then start training your pet early
- ideally when she's a kitten," says Dr. Horwitz. Specifically:
Socialize your kitten
Introduce her to many people. This
can help lessen her fear of strangers.
The more contact, the better
Handle your kitten a little
each day. It will get her used to petting.
Set ground rules for behavior
And be consistent in enforcing
them. That way, the hors d'oeuvres stay on the tray, where they belong.
Make time for playtime
Regular play can help your kitten get
acclimated to her environment.
Choose a name early
Encouraging people to use it will help
establish a connection with friends and family members.
Reprinted by permission of Purina.
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